relationships... games?

while having a thought process (aka talking to myself) something occurred to me... we are no longer young. Relationships are no longer a game... if you still consider relationships a game at this age (late 20s)... you are clearly immature and there is something wrong with you...

actually... relationships should never be considered a game... to begin with... only immature, selfish, insecure and low self confidence type of people play games... because they can't show others who they really are...

Relationship thoughts

photo source: inner bonding

(I found this lying in my drafts and realize this post was never posted... :O... I wrote this post all the way back in September 2014... thought it is still worthy of being published!)

Not to get into any specific details, during the past month (Aug, 2014), I realize how tough it is being in a relationship....

Relationships take a lot of time and energy.... Long d relationships require even more... (as if time differences weren't already a real issue).

What I learned about myself in this "relationship":

• I can be quite selfish
• I am very defensive (extremely afraid to get hurt)
• I am not as considerate as I thought I was
• I am very oblivious to lots of signs
• I am clueless...
• I think I have some form or another of "princess sickness" (公主病)
• It is so easy for me to fall
• It is easy for me to gain and lose a sense of security
• I get jealous really easily
• I do not know how to flirt (I seriously SUCK at it -_____-)
• Simple and small things can make me very happy
• If problems happen... I get scared and hide... I avoid confrontation... and competition....

I think these are due to past crush relationships and "experiences"... I realized how fragile I am... relationships really expose your flaws and reveals your insecurities...

now what I gotta do... HOW to be better in a relationship! :)

Sacrifices

This so true...

If you aren't willing to stay for me... Why should I give up my freedom for you?

#singlevstaken

Soul mate?

You can tell he is a keeper when you picture him as old and wrinkly and yet, you know you will still love him the same <3

I have yet to find this person! <3 <3 <3